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Why All My Favorite Subjects Start With P ….. and Maybe My Problems Too

November 9, 2025
Some people collect hobbies. I collect confusion ….. in perfectly alphabetized order.

I recently had a realization that felt both profound and slightly concerning ….. almost philosophical, if you will (see what I did there?). Every subject that genuinely fascinates me starts with the letter P.

Physics. Philosophy. Psychology. Politics.
And occasionally, Poetry, when I’m feeling particularly poetic about my poor life choices.

Coincidence? Maybe.
Destiny? Possibly.
Proof that the universe has a twisted sense of humor? Definitely.

1. Physics: Because Why Should Apples Fall Without My Permission?

It all began with Physics ….. that magical, maddening subject that dares to explain why the universe behaves like a teenager: moody, unpredictable, yet bound by a few “laws” it occasionally ignores.

I don’t fully understand quantum mechanics, but I do know my Wi-Fi behaves exactly like particles ….. unpredictable, invisible, and only works when I don’t need it.

Physics, to me, is where curiosity meets chaos. It tells us that everything is energy and that technically, we’re all stardust ……. which sounds poetic until you realize you still have to pay your electricity bill.

2. Philosophy: The Art of Asking Questions That Don’t Want Answers

Then there’s Philosophy ….. the noble discipline of turning confusion into a career.

It’s the reason I can spend an hour debating whether reality is real while forgetting to eat lunch. From ancient thinkers to that one friend who turns dramatic after coffee — philosophy makes us question reality, but not our procrastination.

It’s comforting, though, that when I don’t understand Physics, I can philosophize about why I don’t understand it.

3. Psychology: The Study of Why We’re All a Little Bit Weird

Next comes Psychology ….. the science of figuring out what’s going on in our heads. Spoiler: not much clarity.

Psychology fascinates me because it feels like detective work for the human mind. Why do we procrastinate? Why do we crave validation? Why do I think binge-watching documentaries on sleep deprivation at 2 AM is a good idea?

It’s all in the name of “self-discovery,” I tell myself, while diagnosing my personality type for the 17th time.

4. Politics: Because Apparently, We Needed Drama Outside of Netflix Too

Ah, Politics ….. the group project that never ends.

It’s fascinating, infuriating, and oddly addictive. It’s where psychology, philosophy, and physics collide ….. the psychology of voters, the philosophy of power, and the physics of how fast things can fall apart.

It’s also the only field where everyone’s an expert ….. from your uncle at dinner to your neighbour with a conspiracy theory. But let’s admit it: politics is just philosophy that realized it could get funding.

5. Patterns, Paradoxes, and… Probably My Personality

At this point, I can’t help but wonder: is it pure coincidence that my name starts with P too? Am I magnetically drawn to P-words the way philosophers are drawn to paradoxes?

Maybe it’s the pattern-loving part of my brain. Maybe it’s the psychological comfort of seeing myself reflected in my interests. Or maybe ….. and this is my favorite theory …… the universe just looked at me and said,
“Here, take all the confusing subjects and a matching initial. Good luck.”

6. The P-Connection

Here’s the funny part: all these subjects actually connect.
- Physics explains how the universe works.
- Philosophy asks why it works that way.
- Psychology studies how we process that understanding (or fail to).
- Politics decides what to do with all that chaos.
Together, they form the perfect circle of curiosity, confusion, and coffee dependency.

So maybe it’s not random at all. Maybe the “P” stands for Patterns, Perception, Passion, and …. let’s be honest ….. a bit of Perpetual overthinking.

Or maybe it’s just the universe’s way of trolling me alphabetically.

Either way, I’ve made peace with it. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned from my beloved “P” subjects, it’s this:

Everything connects …. especially the things that don’t make sense.

PS: If you’re reading this and your name starts with “P” too… I’m sorry. It’s already begun. 😏

–P for Priyam Jain
The Grass Isn’t Greener, It’s Just Filtered Better🌿

November 5, 2025
The Psychology of Wanting What Others Have

You’ve seen it ….. someone posts a beach photo with “just living my best life 🌴,” and suddenly your perfectly fine coffee feels like sadness in a mug.
Or your friend buys the exact same kurta you once ignored, and now it looks like couture.

Relax, it’s not witchcraft. It’s psychology.
Our brains are wired to believe that someone else’s version of life …… job, love, skin, vacation, even breakfast …….is somehow the upgraded one.

Let’s decode why that happens, why it’s perfectly human, and how to laugh (not spiral) our way through it.

The Social Comparison

Welcome to the first act …… Social Comparison Theory.
Proposed by psychologist Leon Festinger, it basically says: We understand ourselves by comparing with others.

From childhood, we’ve heard …..

“Look at Sharma ji’s son!”
“See how neat Radhika keeps her room!”

And so, our brain quietly installs a lifelong app called CompareKart, which keeps scanning:
- Who’s happier?
- Who’s richer?
- Who’s eating better chaat?
The result? A constant emotional seesaw….. satisfaction on sale, envy on offer.

The Mimetic Desire

Next up, the mysterious Mimetic Desire, coined by French philosopher René Girard.

He said we don’t just want things because we want them ……. we want them because someone else wants them.
We copy desires like we copy Reels transitions.

That’s why when your friend suddenly buys a latest Bike, you feel like your car has no soul.
Or why everyone suddenly wants the same vacation spot after one influencer posts from there.

In short:

We don’t chase the thing; we chase the feeling of being the one who has it.

The “Why-Not-Me” Feeling

(because envy always arrives with good timing and bad Wi-Fi)

You know that tiny twinge when someone gets promoted, engaged, or gifted the exact gadget you were “manifesting”? That’s envy sneaking in ….. stylish, silent, and slightly sarcastic.

It’s not evil. It’s just your brain saying, “Hey, that looks nice… why not me?”

In small doses, envy is like green chutney ……adds flavor, even motivation. But in excess, it burns. That’s when it turns into covetousness, the restless urge to own what’s not yours.

It whispers, “If only I had what they have, I’d be happier.”
Spoiler alert: once you get it, someone else’s version will look shinier.

How to Deal With It (Without Turning Into a Saint)
1. Acknowledge the Feeling
  It’s okay to feel jealous. Just don’t let it rent a flat in your mind.
2. Flip the Lens
  Instead of “They have it better,” try “What can I learn from them?”
  Turn comparison into inspiration, not irritation.
3. Gratitude Detox
  For every “they have,” list one “I have.”
  It’s like emotional yoga ….. stretches your perspective.
4. Limit the Scroll
  Remember, Instagram is a highlight reel, not a reality show.
  No one posts their electricity bill or emotional meltdown.
5. Laugh It Off
  Because sometimes humor is the only sane reaction to modern envy.
  (“Wow, she’s in the Maldives again? My Shower will do.”)
The Takeaway

Everyone’s dosa looks better from across the table.
But if you sit and actually taste your own ….. you’ll realize it’s not so bad.

So next time that green-eyed feeling visits, offer it some chai and say:

“You’re welcome to stay …. but I’m keeping my peace of mind.”

After all, the real glow-up is not wanting anyone else’s glow.

-Priyam Jain
The Journey of Belief

November 3, 2025

This morning’s newspaper didn’t just carry news …. it carried goosebumps.
A full spread of the Indian women’s cricket team, smiling, hugging, lifting that shining trophy ….. and a headline that said it all: “The Journey of Belief.” 💙

For years, they were told what they couldn’t do.
Today, they showed the world what happens when belief meets hard work.

It’s not just a win on the scoreboard …… it’s a win in every lane, classroom, and small-town playground where a little girl is quietly dreaming big.

The image of our women in blue, drenched in victory, is more than a sports story.
It’s a story of early mornings, calloused palms, sacrifices no one saw, and resilience that refused to quit.

From “maybe someday” to “today is ours.”
From “can they?” to “they did!”

Women today are not just reaching places; they’re owning them.
From stadiums to boardrooms, space missions to film sets ….. they’re rewriting what success looks like, with grace, grit, and a bit of glitter.

So here’s to the journey of belief…..
To the ones who never stopped showing up.
To the women who are not just winning matches, but winning hearts.
And to the little girls who, tomorrow morning, will hold a cricket bat a little tighter.

Because when women rise, the whole sky celebrates.

Jai Hind

-Priyam Jain
Protect Yourself from… Your Own Thoughts! (Yes, Really)

October 31, 2025

Ever felt like your brain should come with a “Do Not Disturb” sign? One minute you’re peacefully sipping coffee, and the next …… Boom…….. your mind whispers, “Remember that embarrassing thing you said in 2016?”

Welcome to the club. We meet at 3 a.m. when everyone else is asleep.

We often talk about protecting ourselves from toxic people, bad vibes, and negative environments. But let’s be honest ……. sometimes the real villain lives rent-free inside our heads. Those overthinking thoughts sneak in like unwanted guests, rearrange all your peace, and leave before the bill arrives.

1. Catch Your Inner Drama Queen

Your mind loves to dramatize …….. “They didn’t reply, maybe they hate me.”
No, maybe they’re just eating a samosa. Not every pause is a plot twist.

2. Treat Your Thoughts Like Strangers on a Train

You don’t have to talk to every thought that walks in. Some are just passing by.
Smile, nod, and let them leave. No need to offer them chai and unpack your entire emotional history together.

3. Rename Your Inner Critic

If your inner critic is being too loud, give it a funny name …… like “Sarla Aunty” (who always has opinions) or “Panic Prasad” (the guy who panics before every exam, interview, or traffic signal).

It’s harder to take negative thoughts seriously when they sound like nosy characters from your neighborhood.

4. Journal, But with Sass

When your brain gets noisy, write down your thoughts ….and respond to them like you would to that over-inquisitive relative.
“Will everything go wrong?” ….. “Calm down, Sarla Aunty, it’s just Monday.”

5. Play the ‘Evidence Game’

If your mind says, “You’re not doing enough,” ask for proof. Actual proof.
(Spoiler: your brain will go suspiciously silent.)

6. Redirect the Energy

Overthinking burns the same mental calories as problem-solving ….. but gives you zero results.
So, channel that chaos: clean a drawer, dance to a Bollywood song, or cook something new.

In short: Protect yourself from your own thoughts the way you protect your phone battery …….. stop leaving unnecessary tabs open.

Sometimes the best self-defense is simply laughing at the nonsense your mind tries to sell you.
After all, not every thought deserves a reaction. Some just deserve an eye roll and a snack break.

Now i need a snack break and a coffee, Wana join?

-Priyam Jain
The Clay Cup and the Ocean

October 23, 2025

A reflection on Syādvāda …. the relativity of knowledge in Jainism

Sometimes I wonder …. why do people argue so much just to prove they’re “right”?
Maybe it’s because we forget that truth can look different from different angles.

A few years ago, I read a story about a young Jain monk named Devbhadra, and somehow it stayed with me.

He once asked his teacher, “Guruji, isn’t truth supposed to be one? Then why do people say it’s different for everyone?”

The teacher smiled, lifted a small clay cup filled with water, and said, “Tell me what you see.”

Devbhadra replied, “A cup of water.”

The teacher said, “To a thirsty man, it’s life. To a potter, it’s his creation. To a philosopher, it’s impermanence. But to a tiny ant trapped inside, it’s an ocean. So who is wrong?”

Devbhadra thought for a while and whispered, “No one.”

“That,” said the teacher, “is Syādvāda ….. the Jain idea that truth is relative. What you see depends on where you stand.”

When I first read this, it hit me hard.
How often do we fight to prove our point, forgetting that someone else might be seeing the same thing ….. just from another side?

That night, the young monk wrote in his diary:

“Truth wears many faces. To see only one is blindness. To see them all …… is wisdom.”

And honestly, that line could be written in any century and still make sense.

So, the next time I find myself about to argue, I try to remember the clay cup and the ocean.
Maybe I’m just the ant.
Or maybe I’m the potter.
Either way, I’m still learning.

Reflection:
In Jain philosophy, Syādvāda teaches that every truth is partial ….. and every perspective, valid in its own way.
If we all remembered that, maybe we’d listen more and fight less.
Because wisdom isn’t about knowing everything ….. it’s about understanding that we never fully do.

-Priyam Jain
There Is Nothing Permanent Except Change

October 18, 2025

If life came with a “pause” button, I’m pretty sure most of us would have worn it out by now. Whether it’s a perfect morning coffee, a peaceful phase of life, or someone who makes us laugh till our stomach hurts …….we all secretly wish, “Can this moment just stay?”

But the truth is, nothing does.
Change tiptoes in like that uninvited guest who somehow ends up staying forever. It rearranges our plans, changes our playlists, and sometimes even our perspectives.

And yet, it’s funny …… the same change we resist often becomes the reason we grow. The job we cried over losing made room for something better. The heartbreak that once felt like the end became the start of self-love. Even our “what was I thinking?” moments shaped us into someone a little wiser and a lot more interesting.

So maybe change isn’t the villain we think it is. Maybe it’s the universe’s way of keeping life from turning into a rerun.

Here’s to embracing the plot twists ……. laughing at the chaos, learning from the shifts, and trusting that every version of change is just life’s way of saying,
“Hey, you’re evolving beautifully.”

-Priyam Jain
When She Turned Off Survival, Life Turned On

October 16, 2025

Mira had become the kind of woman everyone admired …..efficient, independent, composed. She woke up before dawn, powered through work, managed her home, and always had a polite smile ready.

But lately, her reflection looked like a stranger …..neat, capable, and… lifeless.
The sparkle in her eyes had been replaced with calculation. She didn’t dream anymore, she planned. She didn’t feel, she functioned.

She wasn’t living. She was surviving.

Femininity …..the gentle rhythm that once defined her….. had slowly faded.
The softness in her voice turned into precision.
The curiosity in her gaze turned into focus.
The patience she once had for flowers, people, and herself …..gone.

One evening, she found her old photo album. In one picture, she was sitting by the sea, hair flying wild, eyes half-closed, laughing at something silly. That girl looked… alive.

A strange ache rose in her chest.
When did she stop being her?

That night, Mira didn’t open her laptop.
She put on music instead. Cooked something slowly, messily.
Walked barefoot on her balcony. Watched the moon without checking the time.

For the first time in years, she didn’t rush.

And in that pause, something shifted.
Her body relaxed. Her mind softened. She felt warmth spreading …. not from achievement, but from ease.

It hit her then:
Survival mode had made her strong, but it had also made her hard.
It taught her to fight, but not to feel.
To endure, but not to enjoy.

That night, Mira promised herself …. she would no longer apologize for being soft, emotional, or slow. Because her femininity was never her weakness ….it was her balance.

And as the candle flickered beside her, she smiled softly, realizing…
she didn’t need to fight the world to prove her strength.
Sometimes, real strength is simply ….. allowing yourself to be gentle again. 🌷

-Priyam Jain
What If We’re Not Choosing… But Being Chosen?

October 1, 2025

We all like to think of ourselves as decision-makers.
The boss of our choices.
The ruler of our shopping carts.
The great architect of our destiny.

But then….have you noticed how often life just flips the script?

You walk into a store determined to buy a blue dress, and you walk out with a yellow jacket that somehow convinced you, “Hey, I belong with you.”

You go house-hunting with a perfect checklist….balcony, sunlight, big kitchen, near the metro….and somehow end up in a house with none of that… yet you feel at home the second you step in.

You think you’re making the choice. But maybe… just maybe… the house was picking you.

The couch that looked too big but magically fit in the living room? It had already signed up to sit with you through movie marathons.
The city you thought was just a temporary stop? It decided you needed to meet a version of yourself that only existed there.

It’s like the universe is running a giant matchmaking service….not just for people, but for everything: places, homes, objects, moments.

So maybe, it’s less “I chose this life” and more “this life chose me, handed me the keys, and said….don’t worry, you’ll grow into it.”

And honestly? That thought makes life cooler. Because instead of stressing about whether we’re making the right choices, we can lean back and trust that sometimes the jacket, the house, the job, even the city… saw something in us and whispered:

“You’re mine now.”

Takeaway thought

Next time you pick something, ask yourself…..what if it picked me first?

-Priyam Jain

A beautiful picture of my friend’s Home and a painting made by her
Why I Don’t Want to Be a Legacy

September 30, 2025

Lately, I’ve been thinking about why people try so hard to grab attention. In the movie industry, in social circles, even in daily life….everyone seems to be running after the spotlight. And yet, I’ve seen how short-lived that spotlight can be. My Grandfather’s work as scientist, which once had its own respect, isn’t remembered today. People who once kept in touch don’t anymore. That’s how it goes….fame and attention are fragile.

But I’ve come to believe something simple: there is a time for everyone to shine. Your season comes, and then it passes. You can’t shine forever, and you won’t be remembered by everyone. And that’s perfectly okay. After 30, 50, or 100 years, none of this will matter anyway….our names, our achievements, our struggles. Life moves on.

For me, that thought is not depressing, it’s freeing. I don’t wish to be remembered forever. In fact, I feel it would be a burden to my soul…..to carry the weight of being someone’s “memory” or “legacy.” I just want to live, do my work with honesty, and let life flow without the pressure of being unforgettable.

Maybe that’s the beauty of it. To know your worth quietly, to keep going without needing applause, to bloom in your season and then step aside gracefully. There is peace in being ordinary, in being forgotten, in knowing that the value of your life isn’t tied to how loudly the world remembers you, but how deeply you lived it.

And in that acceptance, I find a strange kind of lightness…..almost like my soul can breathe easier.

Takeaways

It’s not about being remembered, it’s about remembering to live truly while you’re here.

–Priyam Jain
Feeling the Heat? That’s a Privilege

September 28, 2025

When was the last time you felt pressure? Maybe before an exam, a big presentation at work, or a tough life decision. We usually look at pressure as a burden ……something we wish didn’t exist. But what if I told you that pressure is actually a privilege?

Think about it: pressure only comes when you’re in the game.
It means you’ve earned a spot where the stakes matter. Nobody feels pressure sitting on the sidelines. Pressure shows up when you’re trusted with responsibility, when your performance could change the outcome, when you’re close to something meaningful.

Take sports as an example. A player about to take the final penalty kick feels enormous pressure ……but that pressure exists only because they have the chance to win for their team. Without pressure, there is no opportunity for greatness.

Pressure sharpens you. It makes you focus. It raises the value of your effort. The higher the pressure, the greater your chances of creating something memorable. That’s why the best performers don’t run away from it …… they seek it.

Next time you feel pressure, don’t resent it. Flip the perspective:

Pressure means you matter.

Pressure means you’re trusted.

Pressure means you’re playing for something worth it.

So instead of hiding from pressure, lean into it. Seek the situations that make your heart race. Because every ounce of pressure carries with it the seed of victory …..and the privilege of growth.

Priyam Jain