I recently received some feedback about my novel.
“It’s quite slow.”
My first reaction?
Well… it is a slow-burn romance.
That is literally what I was trying to do. 😂
But then I started thinking about it.
Maybe the problem isn’t always that a story is slow.
Maybe we have become very fast.
We live in a world where almost everything is available immediately.
Want food?
Ten minutes.
Want groceries?
A few minutes.
Want a dress?
Order it today, wear it tomorrow.
Want an answer?
Google it.
Want entertainment?
Swipe.
Next.
Next.
Next.
Even a two-to-three-day delivery now feels strangely long.
“What do you mean it will arrive on Thursday? Today is Monday!”
Apparently, we have collectively forgotten that packages once took time to travel.
And somewhere along the way, we may have started expecting the same speed from everything else.
Including stories.
Including relationships.
Including life.
We want the couple to fall in love quickly.
We want the mystery solved quickly.
We want the character to heal quickly.
We want results quickly.
And if something takes too long….
Next.
Which brings me back to my novel.
A slow-burn romance asks you to wait.
To notice the tiny changes.
The awkward conversations.
The almost-confessions.
The moments that don’t look important until you look back and realise they were.
It doesn’t throw fireworks at you every few pages and announce,
“LOOK! THEY’RE IN LOVE NOW!”
It lets love happen quietly.
Maybe that’s why slow stories feel slower today.
Not necessarily because they have changed….
but because our relationship with waiting has changed.
And then I had a ridiculous thought.
What if I could time travel fifty years into the past?
Back to the days when people wrote letters.
Imagine me writing a deeply emotional letter to someone.
Then putting it in an envelope.
Posting it.
And waiting.
Days.
Weeks.
Maybe longer.
And then, finally, the reply arrives.
I open it with trembling hands….
only to discover:
“Dear Priyam,
I received your letter.
I am keeping well. Hope you are too.
Warm regards.”
I would probably spend the next three weeks wondering whether “Regards” was romantic or passive-aggressive. 😂
But seriously….
people once lived with that uncertainty.
They wrote letters without knowing when they would receive a response.
They waited for photographs to be developed.
They waited for news.
They waited for journeys.
They waited to meet people.
They waited.
And perhaps because they waited more, they also noticed more.
A letter wasn’t just information.
It was an event.
A photograph wasn’t something you immediately checked and deleted.
It was something you waited to see.
A meeting wasn’t something you could reschedule with one tap.
And love….
well, love couldn’t be delivered in ten minutes.
Maybe that’s the funny part.
We have invented incredible technology to save time….
and somehow ended up becoming incredibly impatient with time itself.
We can speak to someone on the other side of the planet instantly.
But sitting alone for ten minutes without checking our phones can feel unbearable.
We can watch an entire season in a weekend.
But waiting a week for one episode feels like torture.
We can order almost anything at the click of a button.
But waiting for a relationship to develop naturally?
“How long is this going to take?”
Perhaps we haven’t lost our ability to be patient.
Perhaps we’ve simply stopped practicing it.
And maybe that’s why some things feel slow now….
not because they are taking too long,
but because we are no longer used to waiting long enough to appreciate them.
So yes, my novel is slow.
Deliberately.
Because some love stories aren’t supposed to sprint.
Some connections need awkward silences.
Some feelings need time to become clear.
And some stories need you to stay long enough to notice what is happening between the lines.
Maybe that’s old-fashioned.
Maybe it’s inconvenient.
Maybe, in today’s world, it’s even a little rebellious.
But I think I’ll keep writing that way.
After all….
if I had lived fifty years ago, I would have had to wait months for a letter.
At least now, if someone tells me my novel is slow….
I can get the feedback instantly.
Progress, I suppose. 😂
Maybe we haven’t forgotten how to love slowly.
Maybe we’ve simply forgotten how to wait.
And since I’m talking about slow-burn stories, I might as well talk about mine. 😌
My novel, His Hoodie, Her Heart, is a slow-burn romance. And yes…. I’ve been told it’s quite slow. 😂
But instead of me defending it, why don’t you read it and tell me yourself?
Maybe you’ll fall in love with the pace.
Maybe you’ll be screaming, “Just tell her already!” 😭😂
Either way, I’d genuinely love to know what you think.
Read His Hoodie, Her Heart here:
[His Hoodie Her Heart]
And please…. be kind to my characters. They take their time. ❤️
©Priyam Jain 2026









